Do not counter your parents.
Dalip Singh Wasan, Advocate.
People may believe that they have been sent on this earth by God Himself and we go back when He recalls us. But at the same time we shall have to accept that we have come here on this earth through our parents and up till now, we could not see a person who has come on this earth directly from God. Even the people who have got some place in mythologies and in history and who had been founding religions and had been telling us that they are God had come on this earth through their parents and none has come directly from the side of God. That is the reason in Hindu Shastras, it has been admitted that parents are above all and none on earth can have a place equal to parents.
Time is going on and we, who had started from stone age are now talking to the skies. In other words, what the parents could not do, their children are doing that. But still the children must understand that they had not come and they were not with all the wisdom, intellect and competency at their command when they were born. Their parents had been looking after them and they had been bringing them up. The parents had been saving him or her when there was cold, when there was hot and when they were wet or were lying in wet and dirty bed. The man knows that he starts caring for himself only when he comes in the age of 10 years or more and even at this stage, he is not in a position to earn and can provide himself for all the facilities which are required for proper development.
If one has an introspection, he shall come to the conclusion that he would no have survived had their been no parents or others to look after him or her. We all know that we need proper education, proper training, proper adjustment in life, proper earning and then we are to marry and settle a house. And lucky are those who have got parents and they could get all help from the side of their parents. The people who have got no parents because the parents died earlier or they had been lost in crowds, never get the same psychology as a normal child could get through parents. The child who got no parents to look after him or her remains all alone in life and he never feels that he has got someone to protect him or her.
The child is compensating his or her parents and therefore, there are chances that he or she would be having more education, more training, more wisdom, more intellect, more income and a higher status in society and in the work place, but still he is not better than his or her parents and therefore the child must keep in mind that he shall not compare himself or herself better than his or her parents. He must be thankful to his parents who could provide him facilities through which he could achieve these heights and should never counter his parents. We, the people of India know the story of Shri Rama who left his house only because his father had directed him to leave the house and even his rights to have the throne. It means, the order of the parents should be followed and no child should say that the order from the side of his or her parents is wrong and therefore, he would not follow that order.
You may carry out the order of your parents or you may not carry out the order of your parents, but one thing should be taken care of that you should not refuse to carry out the order of your parents at their face and tell them that they are in the wrong. The parents are not in a position to bear all this because they are living only with one hope in their mind that their children are obedient and they shall be carrying out the orders of their parents. This psychology and wish of the parents must be kept alive and the parents should fee proud of the fact that their children are advancing.
We must understand that all in the world other than the parents may feel jealous when we are rising, but the parents shall feel happy and shall pray for your more success. If we can pray for others, we must locate our parents who can pray for us and would always desire that we should go ahead and we should win all the ventures we have undertaken. Even your brothers and sisters may be having some love for you but still there are chances that they may not feel pleasure when you are rising higher and higher and sometime they may be having some property disputes with you. But your parents shall not be sad when you are rising. They shall be happy and they shall be proud of the fact that you are rising and rising higher in life.
So when we are allotting status and position to others, we should have more care when we have a look on our parents and they should be placed still higher and when we are doing all this we should not expect thanks from our parents. We are just doing something to repay the debt and we are not creating a debt against5 our parents. We are nobody to repay the debts which the parents have established against us and we may take thousands of such births, but still we are not in a position to clear the debts. So it is our duty to ensure that we are to say ‘yes my dear father, yes my dear mother’ and nothing more. No reasons and no explanations should be placed before parents nor we should try to establish before our parents that we are having more qualifications, more money and a higher status. We are still low and we should keep this position till our parents are alive and even after their dearth, we should not try to say that they had been in the wrong. They are right, they were right and they shall be right should be the lifelong idea with us.
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Do not Counter your Parents
Saturday, July 31st, 2010Security Experts Predict Need for Increased Home Security
Saturday, July 31st, 2010Many security experts have already noted the uptick in burglaries and have expressed the need for increased home security in these uncertain economic times. Homes that do not have a home security system are vulnerable to break ins and losing valuable property. They are also more likely to get broken into than homes with a home security system. With security experts expressing the need for increased home security, it is important to consider their recommendations for a fully monitored system with multiple layers of protection.
Probably one of the key factors in the uptick in burglaries is the current economic situation. Criminals have become more desperate and are becoming more brazen in their attempts to steal valuables from a home. While they were once content on casing out a home and waiting until people left for work, there are an increasing number of violent home invasions where families are often terrorized by the criminals and people often get hurt and traumatized. With these types of incidents occurring, it’s important to follow the advice of the security experts and have a home security system installed with a live monitoring component to protect yourself, your family and your valuables from criminals that will resort to desperate means to make off with your valuables.
A monitored home security system can make all the difference in the world between a successful and unsuccessful robbery. When you have a home security system with multiple layers of protection, the moment the alarm is triggered, a signal goes off in one of several monitoring control centers. The monitoring professional is trained to respond to alarms and will immediate try to reach the homeowner to establish that the alarm is valid. If the homeowner does not respond, or if the pre-determined password is not given correctly, the monitor will then dispatch police to your house to investigate the alarm further. Having live monitoring insures that you have coverage and protection whether you are at home or not. Monitoring ensures that police will arrive hopefully in time to apprehend the burglars before they have had the chance to make off with any of your valuables. The police can also arrive in a home invasion situation and put a stop to any terrorizing of the family and prevent any injuries.
With the need for home security becoming greater, it’s important to do your homework and really research the type of home security providers that are out there. You ideally want to go with a provider that is a market leader, who has done millions of installations and has multiple monitoring facilities so your home is covered at all times. Finding a good home security provider is key because you need reliable around the clock protection for your home and finding one with multiple monitoring centers is important so your service is never down due to issues at the monitoring center.
Home security systems can provide you with the protection you and your family need in these uncertain times. They are an investment in the protection of your home, property and family. So follow the advice of security experts and have a monitored home security system installed in your home today and have some peace of mind in knowing that your home is covered and protected around the clock.
A Garden Office is the Ideal Homeworking or Home Improvement Product
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